Thoughts on Mystery.

“It’s the quiet ones you always have to watch out for….”
I wish I could always remain mysterious.. to everyone! Maybe it stems from my mother’s obsession at a young age (and hence, my later obsession) with Nancy Drew Mysteries. Too many people give everything away at first glance. They are like a bad US Weekly cover, you know what’s there without even opening it - tossing it aside.

I adore mystery in itself. I love a nonchalant glance, a knowing smile, a quick turn of the head, a raise of the eyebrows, and a quick toss of the hair. These gestures make LIFE more exciting. And, to me, mystery equates intelligence— as the intelligent ones will attempt to remain mysterious.

Portrait of Madame X, John Singer Sargent
I think Keira Knightley often exhibits a bit of this look. It’s the glance that she gives, that she knows something you don’t and isn’t going to give it away any time soon. Isn’t that more fun? There’s way too much over-exposure (and I’m not talking about social media, as I’m guilty as charged).

Keira Knightley
But, in addition to a mysterious style, I’m also speaking of a lack of modern chivalry which is replaced with today’s need for a quick-fix. Subsequently, an arrogant laziness seemingly ensues in every day life. Why in the world would an individual work for something when they don’t have to do so? That treasured quiet wait that allows you to truly know someone, the baby steps that it takes to truly fall in love before making rash decisions, seems to be less and less common and undervalued.

With life and love, there is a complete lack of patience. I adore an absolutely beautiful song by Billie Holiday called “All of Me” that serendipidously came on my iTunes shuffle just last week. The lyrics make me just melt (as is custom with all Billie Holiday) and think about the very issue I’m talking about. You can’t just take pieces of someone and establish as a whole, it’s everything or nothing at all.. and to truly understand the complete picture- my sincerest apologies, but you “just have to wait.”

Alice White, from the LA Times
That is where true beauty comes from, understanding that the unknown is much more powerful than writing your autobiography on your wrist. It’s giving a taste of loveliness, but always leaving people with the knowledge that the best is yet to come. That is brilliance.

Jane Birkin
And, when the mystery ends, is the spell undoubtedly always over? Now that, shall remain the real mystery (unless the answers all rest in the book I’m currently reading below).
